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I like Los Angeles more than San Diego.

I’m pretty out of the loop so maybe one of you can explain why they’re making the exact Harry Potter movies again but worse?

So what do we think? Will the median voter have finally learned their lesson by November?

Hello, I am Rafael and this is gonna be a very long

!ping DATING

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I will start off by giving context since i feel it is crucial

October 31st 2024, I decide to dress as Sans Undertale for halloween, it’s a school day but I don’t expect people to really recognize who I’m dressed as or anything, school goes on pretty normal for a festive day, it’s exit time, people are bunched up on the gate waiting for it open, when suddenly im feel a touch on my shoulder

A group of 3 girls want to take a photo with me, I’m immediately drawn by the beauty of one of them, we take the photo and normally that would be it, but since the gate is still closed we decide to chat it up, and I hit it off with them, we dance to megalovania, real weird people behavior really, I grab their names and I plan to make friends with them, but that one girl in particular, I couldn’t keep my mind of her, I will call her Andy Rose for the purpose of this post

Andy Rose was just so damn beautiful and my kind of weird we continue chatting every school day, we go on a school trip together where we were like 2 lovebirds who couldn’t stop talking for a second, she’d grab my hand and take me places, but eventually it’s time for our high school graduation ceremony, they were on different days and I go to hers, she was wearing an amazing red dress, after the ceremony is over I meet her family, they’re very nice to me and all, I take some photos together with her, and eventually it’s getting late and she has to leave, I decide this is an appropriate time for me to end the night with a bang, I ask her if she would let me kiss her, she says *no* which was very shocking to me but whatever maybe she just wasn’t feeling that moment

Fast forward a few weeks, I setup a date with her, and I explicitly mention it’s a date a few times, her younger sister is gonna be third wheeling, we chat, we eat junk food, even her sister realizes she’s third wheeling this completely, eventually it’s time to say bye to her after what I feel was a great date and I just go for it, I kiss her. This would prove to be a great mistake but not immediately, she laughs and we go our separate ways, I get home and we start talking on whatsapp and I ask if it officially means we’re dating now, she’s shocked to learn that what we just had was a date and that i kissed her intentionally, she says she’s a shitty person who doesn’t deserve to be loved and pulls out a bunch of other justifications as to why she’s pulling out of this, we end up talking for a few more months but eventually she stops responding.

It’s time for college, I’m going to a different city over 100km away, after what happened with Andy Rose i say fuck it and decide to start using Tinder, in there i match someone who’s very excited to me, she’s from the city I was gonna be studying at, she’s very goth looking (yes this is the Goth GF I’ve talked about before) for the purposes of this post I’m gonna be calling her Helen, Helen seems to fucking love right of the bat, we talk for a few months and eventually when i finally move into the new city and it looks like it’s finally the time we are gonna meet IRL she suddenly has, what I would call, a hissy fit, and decides to cut contact with me (this is very common with her) eventually i stop college for various reasons and move back to my city

Eventually time passes and I’m on a Discord call with my friends, and one of them, who i would call my best friend since 2017 shows me something very peculiar, my friends had made a separate group chat with the sole focus of stalking me, Helen and making sure we didn’t stay together (this is why my reddit profile is private btw, they stalked my dating ping posts) feeling manipulated i try to see if I can re-establish contact with Helen and as it turns out, she tried doing that earlier than me, we start talking again and I discover that she deeply cared about me and even tried going to my old address that i was living in her city to see if I was ok which like wow

We stay talking and she gets the courage to get a bus and come over to my city, looks like we are finally meeting for the first time. It’s the day before she’s supposed to come over and she has another fit, where she throws baseless accusations at me like “I don’t really care about her” “im only doing this because i wanna take her virginity” and other stupid stuff, at this point I think it’s over, a little over a week later she sends me a message asking how im doing and while i was thinking about writing a message breaking up with her she tells me she attempted suicide and was in the hospital

Suddenly I don’t feel right breaking up with her right now so I decide to give her more time, and we start hitting it off again, again I really wanna say she deeply cares about me it seems, but the fact that’s she’s not at all mentally stable hangs over this whole thing for me

Now over to the Drama

Today out of nowhere Andy Rose decided to message after over a year, we start talking and she sets up a date with me completely throwing me for a loop

But like, I already have Helen there for me but honestly idk man, I have a lot more fun talking with Rose, and Helen and I don’t really share similar interests so we end mostly talking about normal boring stuff

Idk what the fuck i should do please help me